Dec. 29, 2008: The Holocaust-related elements of the story below have been revealed to be a hoax.
Here’s most of the Associated Press’s story on that:
Anger, sadness over fabricated Holocaust story
Dec 28, 1:09 PM (ET)
By HILLEL ITALIE
It’s the latest story that touched, and betrayed, the world.
“Herman Rosenblat and his wife are the most gentle, loving, beautiful people,” literary agent Andrea Hurst said Sunday, anguishing over why she, and so many others, were taken by Rosenblat’s story of love born on opposite sides of a barbed-wire fence at a concentration camp.
“I question why I never questioned it. I believed it; it was an incredible, hope-filled story.”
On Saturday, Berkley Books canceled Rosenblat’s memoir, “Angel at the Fence.” Rosenblat acknowledged that he and his wife did not meet, as they had said for years, at a sub-camp of Buchenwald, where she allegedly sneaked him apples and bread. The book was supposed to come out in February.
Rosenblat, 79, has been married to the former Roma Radzicky for 50 years, since meeting her on a blind date in New York. In a statement issued Saturday through his agent, he described himself as an advocate of love and tolerance who falsified his past to better spread his message.
“I wanted to bring happiness to people,” said Rosenblat, who now lives in the Miami area. “I brought hope to a lot of people. My motivation was to make good in this world.”
Rosenblat’s believers included not only his agent and his publisher, but Oprah Winfrey, film producers, journalists, family members and strangers who ignored, or didn’t know about, the warnings from scholars that his story didn’t make sense.
Other Holocaust memoirists have devised greater fantasies. Misha Defonseca, author of “Misha: A Memoire of the Holocaust Years,” pretended she was a Jewish girl who lived with wolves during the war, when she was actually a non-Jew who lived, without wolves, in Belgium.
Historical records prove Rosenblat was indeed at Buchenwald and other camps.
“How sad that he felt he had to embellish a life of surviving the Holocaust and of being married for half a century,” said Holocaust scholar Michael Berenbaum.
The damage is broad. Publishing, the most trusting of industries, has again been burned by a memoir that fact-checking might have prevented. Berkley is an imprint of Penguin Group (USA), which in March pulled Margaret B. Jones’”Love and Consequences” after the author acknowledged she had invented her story of gang life in Los Angeles. Winfrey fell, as she did with James Frey, for a narrative of suffering and redemption better suited for television than for history.
The damage is deep. Scholars and other skeptics as well as fellow survivors fear that Rosenblat’s fabrications will only encourage doubts about the Holocaust.
“I am very worried because many of us speak to thousands of student each year,” says Sidney Finkel, a longtime friend of Rosenblat’s and a fellow survivor. “We go before audiences. We tell them a story and now some people will question what I experienced.”
“This was not Holocaust education but miseducation,” Ken Waltzer, director of Jewish Studies at Michigan State University, said in a statement. …..
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(original entry)
The Bar Mitzvah part of the story, while remarkable, pales in comparison to the story of how Herman Rosenblat met his wife (HT Good News Blog):
Postponed 63 Years: A Survivor’s Bar Mitzvah
MINEOLA, NY – Monday, February 27, 2006
Herman Rosenblat’s bar mitzvah was 63 years late and not a moment too soon.
A survivor of the Holocaust, Rosenblat turned thirteen in a Nazi concentration camp. He never had a bar mitzvah, never put on tefillin, until this month when Chabad of Mineola, NY, hosted a ceremony in his honor. A feel good moment on its own, the atmosphere at the Rosenblat bar mitzva turned electric when he told the story of how he met his wife. Then Rosenblat’s miraculous life edged a few more degrees toward full circle when the uplifting news of the Chabad of Mineola event went round the world.
In fact, Rosenblat was up in Mineola from his North Miami Beach home to visit his daughter and tell his story for a TV news segment featured on a February 14th broadcast. The producer, a friend of Chabad of Mineola, convinced Rabbi Anchelle Perl to ask Rosenblat to speak at the synagogue. During their conversation, Rabbi Perl discovered that Rosenblat, trying to rebuild his life after the war, had never had a bar mitzvah. “The Rebbe told us that if something good comes to mind, do it right away,” said Rabbi Perl. Within two days, Rabbi Perl arranged for a talit and pair of tefillin for Rosenblat, food, flowers, music, and he alerted his congregation and the media of the event. “People canceled dentist appointments to be here. Those who didn’t are sorry they missed out.” The remorse comes from missing a story that has “Divine providence dripping from every stage,” said Rabbi Perl.
Rosenblat met his wife Roma in a concentration camp, when he was twelve and she was nine and hiding with Aryan papers. One night Rosenblat’s mother, who had been murdered by the Nazis, came to him in a dream and said, “Son, I am sending you an angel.” Days later a girl showed up on the other side of the fence. He asked her for some food. She took out an apple from her warm jacket, and threw it over the fence. “She was feeding my soul,” Rosenblat said.
Night after night, the girl returned with bread and apples, keeping Rosenblat alive for six, seven months. Then terrible news arrived. Rosenblat was to be transported to a death camp. He told the girl not to bother coming anymore. Years later, after escaping certain death – an amazing story unto itself – immigrating to America, enlisting in the U.S. army during the Korean War and being shipped off to Italy, Rosenblat fell in love. But his brothers said, “You left single, come home single.” For some reason, he listened. On a blind date at Coney Island, Rosenblat was making small talk, sharing his wartime experiences. His date spoke of a boy she fed at a concentration camp fence.
“Did the boy tell you one day not to come back?”
“Yes.”
“That was me!” Shocked, exhilarated, certain, Rosenblat told the young lady. ”Now that I found you, I’m not going to ever let you go” and proposed marriage right there. The actual courtship lasted six months more. Herman and Roma Rosenblat married and went on to raise two children, Kenneth and Renee.
….. After living a life that has been admixed with tragedy, triumph, loss and love, what did becoming a bar mitzvah add to Rosenblat’s life? “The reason I went for the bar mitzvah is I felt I am doing something back for my mother and my father that was important to them,” he said.
Before Rosenblat’s father died of typhus in a Nazi ghetto, he bade his son to remember two things: “Don’t hold a grudge in your heart. Tolerate everyone.” When Rosenblat turned from the Torah to face the media — CNN, the Associated Press and Long Island Newsday among them, he used the moment to convey his father’s message. “Do not hate,” if you do “you are hating yourself and you are miserable all your life.” The cameras and print media ate it up.
This is not Rosenblat’s first encounter with media. Oprah Winfrey hosted the couple on her show. Their story was printed in Chicken Soup for the Couple’s Soul. Atlantic Alliance pictures captured Rosenblat’s memoirs in a film “The Fence,” with Hugh Grant’s cousin playing young Herman, which has not yet been released.
The bar mitzvah was carried everywhere from Florida’s Sun Sentinel to Chicago’s NBC 5. Rosenblat remains philosophical about all the attention. “Because there is so much negativity in this world, if something good happens everyone wants to hear about it.”