Shawna Saubers-Ristic of Lawrence ….. knows how close she came to dying on Christmas 1993, when a horrific crash along Interstate 35 hurled her into a ditch. She knows she might never have survived if it weren’t for two nurses who took care of her until paramedics arrived.
She was just 19 then, a kid with the whole world at her fingertips. She’s 32 now, and has never forgotten the women she calls her earth angels: Laura Mauszycki of Gardner and Donna Hanigan of Olathe.
She credits them with saving her life.
“Every year when Christmas comes around,†Saubers-Ristic said, “I just have so much gratitude.â€
She’s always sent the women Christmas cards, thanking them for the gift of life.
This year, for the first time since the days immediately after the accident, she actually met them. She hoped to find the right words, the words that couldn’t possibly capture what’s in her heart.
The accident
Like many teenagers, Saubers-Ristic thought she was indestructible.
Driving fast never fazed her, especially not that day in 1993. She was en route from her Ottawa, Kan., home to Kansas City International Airport to catch a flight to Minnesota for a Chiefs-Vikings game the next day.
Those plans all changed in an instant when the Dodge station wagon she was driving went out of control on northbound I-35 near Ottawa. It was about 3:30 p.m. on a cold, wet Saturday. She crossed the northbound lanes, then plunged toward the median.
The car started rolling … and rolling … and rolling. Across the median, across the southbound lanes. Saubers-Ristic, who wasn’t wearing a seat belt, was thrown from the vehicle.
Mauszycki, who was with her family driving from one Christmas gathering to another, saw the whole scene unfold.
“It was like a wreck you would see in the Indianapolis 500,†she said.
Leaping from her vehicle, Mauszycki sprinted toward the crash. She found Saubers-Ristic lying in mud, face down. She was bleeding, turning blue. Though she had a pulse, she wasn’t breathing.
Mauszycki cleared the teen’s airway and helped her start breathing. Eventually, Hanigan and others stopped to help.
Fearing Saubers-Ristic might choke on her own blood, Mauszycki and Hanigan rolled her onto her side and kept her stabilized until paramedics arrived.
“That was the longest wait of my life,†Mauszycki said.
Saubers-Ristic was breathing, though just barely. With every pained breath, blood splattered from her mouth and onto the two women — their hands, their clothes, their shoes.
Somebody found her identification and said she was only 19. Recalling that moment, Mauszycki’s eyes well up. As a mother of two, she couldn’t imagine such a tragedy on “the best day of the year.â€
“I remember saying, ‘Dear God, please don’t let her die.’ â€
According to a Kansas Highway Patrol accident report, Saubers-Ristic was traveling “much faster†than 70 mph.
Saubers-Ristic knows she was driving too fast.
And she knows how incredibly lucky she was; Mauszycki and Hanigan had stopped at precisely the right moment.
“Divine orchestration,†Saubers-Ristic calls it.
The relationship
The correspondence between Saubers-Ristic and the two women started around Christmas 1994, a year after the accident.
By then, Saubers-Ristic had been through a harrowing ordeal. Her injuries were extensive: six broken ribs, a punctured lung, a chin broken off and now held together with metal plates, a fractured foot, a cracked hip, a spleen that had to be removed and, most significantly, some head trauma.
She was in a coma for more than two weeks at Research Medical Center and then went through painful rehabilitation. When she finally left the rehabilitation center about two months after the accident, doctors prepared the family for the worst.
“Your daughter,†they said, “may never be the same again.â€
She may never again go to school, or drive a car, or live independently. With head injuries, you just don’t know.
And yet, just a year later, Saubers-Ristic was going to school, living alone, again planning for a bright future.
And she had a new outlook on life.
“You go through something like that, you’re never the same,†she said.
She wanted to thank her earth angels for giving her this chance. She sent each of the nurses Christmas cards, thanking them for their courage on that frigid December day.
She did it again the next Christmas, and the next, and the next.
“Without you, I wouldn’t be here,†she wrote.
“Thanks for doing what you did,†she wrote.
“Jesus wasn’t the only one born on Christmas day!†she wrote.
Mauszycki and Hanigan liked reading about how Saubers-Ristic plunged headfirst into life, how she spent more than three years living in France, how she started a massage therapy business in 1997, how she got married in May 2006.
They followed her life from afar and, sometimes, they wrote back. Like in 2004, when Hanigan sent this message on a Valentine’s card:
“I have forgotten many things over the past 10 years, but you I’ll never forget. I am so thankful you have survived and thrived!â€
The reunion
Through the years, Saubers-Ristic never saw Mauszycki or Hanigan or visited on the phone or sent e-mails.
That all changed last week, when the three got together in a conference room at Olathe Medical Center, where Mauszycki and Hanigan work.
As Saubers-Ristic entered the room, slowly and tentatively, Mauszycki stood and walked toward her. They scanned each other incredulously as their eyes misted. And then they hugged.
There was so much Saubers-Ristic wanted to say. Instead, she didn’t say a word.
She didn’t have to.
Finally, chuckling through tears, Mauszycki said, “You look better than the last time I saw you.â€
And that’s how their reunion started, how they came to spend nearly two hours experiencing another Christmas they won’t soon forget.
“God was looking out for you,†Mauszycki said, placing her hand on Saubers-Ristic’s knee.
“That whole day is kind of a blur,†Hanigan said.
“I never liked my chin anyway,†Saubers-Ristic said.
And so it went, with laughter followed by tears and tears followed by laughter.
They looked at pictures of the wreck and pictures of Saubers-Ristic, who was emaciated and frail during her rehabilitation. They looked at her wedding photos and photos of her modeling, an activity she gave up after the crash because, she said, “it just seemed like there were more important things in life.â€
They looked at the Chiefs ticket Saubers-Ristic had planned to use the day after Christmas.
And they looked at the tickets she got from the Kansas Highway Patrol for not wearing her seat belt and for “failing to maintain a single lane of traffic.â€
The nurses saw the scars on her stomach, her ankle, her hands.
And when it was over, they promised to visit again soon — “sometime in the next 13 years,†Hanigan laughed — and the two nurses tucked under their arms Christmas ornaments from Saubers-Ristic.
Each ornament was an angel.
“My earth angels,†Saubers-Ristic said.