Manitoba man, N.S. woman connect after her stem cell donation cured his cancer
Fri. Jul 4 - 6:02 PM
A 61-year-old Manitoba beef farmer is heading east of Ontario for the first time in his life, travelling to Nova Scotia this weekend for the wedding of the young woman who saved his life — before they ever met.
The story begins in 2005, when Alvin Ross was diagnosed with Stage 4 leukemia. He was given only a few years to live, if that.
“I laughed at (the doctor),” Mr. Ross said Tuesday over the phone from his home in Fisher Branch, north of Winnipeg.
“I’m a Christian. . . . I know doctors do the best they can to help us. I just felt my life was in the hands of God. I just kind of found it amusing, I guess.”
Chemotherapy and other treatments followed, sapping the strength of the big, soft-spoken farmer. His spleen became swollen and his legs wobbled after a few steps.
He couldn’t sleep. He got mad. He wanted to fight people.
The medication left Mr. Ross unable to sweat. He could feel the poison building in his body.
“I could just kind of feel death all over me,” he recalled. “I knew it wouldn’t be long.”
After weeks of treatment, a specialist suggested that Mr. Ross consider a stem cell transplant.
Across the country, in Cole Harbour, an 18-year-old girl was donating blood with her fire captain father. Amanda Carpenter volunteered for a stem cell test as well. Her father Lorne was one year over the cut-off age.
“To me it wasn’t a big decision,” Ms. Carpenter, now 21, said Thursday.
“If you had the opportunity to help somebody, why wouldn’t you?”
Two days later she was told her stem cells might be needed. Within a month she knew they were a perfect match for someone, somewhere. Regulations meant she couldn’t know who the person was.
Ms. Carpenter went to the hospital five hours a day for two days. She was injected with a drug to make her body produce extra stem cells. Those cells were filtered out of her blood and shipped to Manitoba.
Mr. Ross said his bone marrow had to be completely killed off before the transplant, meaning more chemo. Sores formed in his mouth and stomach. His nose bled. Food smelled like plastic.
Finally, Ms. Carpenter’s stem cells were fed through a dialysis-like machine directly into the veins of Mr. Ross’s chest.
It worked. The six-foot-two, 240-pound farmer had been saved by a five-foot-four, 110-pound teenager on the other side of the country. He’s still cancer-free.
Ms. Carpenter was told the transplant had worked, but she had to wait a year to find out whose life she had saved. Both Ms. Carpenter and Mr. Ross agreed to release identities, addresses and phone numbers.
“(I wanted) to have more of a connection to the donation, because to me it was just five needles and two days in a hospital,” she said.
“To me it came as a bit of a shock,” Mr. Ross said. “They had told me they would try to find some old guy my age and my size.” …..